It was a day of firsts. Harvard alumni, students, and faculty gathered last Friday to mark the University’s inaugural observance of the National First-Generation College Celebration, which highlights this community’s contributions on campus. It also marked the unveiling of the First Generation Harvard Alumni Red Book, published by the Harvard Alumni Association. The publication gives first-gen graduates a way to keep up with each other in the same way the traditional Red Books have allowed the wider College and Radcliffe alumni community to share their life updates since the mid-1800s.
“Stories change minds, change lives, even change history,” said Dan Lobo ’14, who was instrumental in the project. As a student, Lobo founded the Harvard College First Generation Student Union (FGSU) — now known as Harvard Primus — in 2013. Lobo, who is currently an undergraduate adviser in the Office of Career Services, is president of the First Generation Harvard Alumni shared-interest group. He and Alejandra Iglesias ’21, president of Primus, spoke with the Gazette to reflect on their own experiences and the power of stories.
Dan Lobo and Alejandra Iglesias
GAZETTE: With the launch of the first-gen Red Book, does the idea that stories matter take on new meaning for you?
lobo: It can be easy to trivialize the impact of stories, but my experience has been that stories change lives. The story of the American dream is what brought my mom from a small island off the coast of Africa to the United States. The story of successful people going to Harvard is what got me to Harvard. I’ve found that stories are a motivating factor in my life and in our community.
Iglesias: I think what’s important about the Red Book is that students sometimes don’t feel comfortable opening up to each other, but you read these stories and feel validated. I think hearing people’s voices, hearing their stories, empowers us to come forward and open up about our own.
GAZETTE: Tell me about the origins of the first-generation Red Book.
lobo: We had been thinking for a number of years about how we could get to know each other better and share our stories with one another in our alumni shared-interest group. This serves as a community-building tool within our organization, but it also connects us back to students. It’s like you’re saying, “Welcome to the community. We can’t wait to connect with you.” The Red Book provides a tangible way to begin to make those connections.
GAZETTE: What do you know now that you wish you had known as a first-year student?
Iglesias: One of the things I’m learning is to know when to ask for help. When you come here, you’ve done everything on your own for so long. Then you get here, and you don’t know anybody, but you get a peer advising fellow and a proctor and an academic adviser — all these different people who are there for you. And yet part of the first-gen experience is that you don’t know how to actually go to them and say, “I’m struggling. Can you help me?” And I made the mistake of not asking for help and nearly failing one of my classes.
lobo: Same here. I wish I knew that life’s journey doesn’t need to be so stressful. I wish I knew that exploration is supposed to be fun. Being hard on yourself is so counterproductive. I can see that clearly now. I would’ve known that it’s going to be fine, but it’s hard to trust yourself in that way.
GAZETTE: Dan, how has being part of the First Generation Harvard Alumni shared-interest group helped you to navigate the experience of being first-gen?
lobo: The issues that come with being first-gen never end. The narrative goes that you get the College degree, you’re on a path of upward social mobility, and everything’s going to be all good. But my experience as an alumnus is that I can’t get advice on career decisions from my parents, so seeking out mentors is extremely important. It’s all completely new territory. You need advice from people who have gone through a similar experience, and that’s what the First-Generation shared-interest group community has been for me.